Win them over.
Get them close to you, like you.
Make them trust, be intimate and drop their guards around you.

Expect understanding, sympathy, while not trying the same.

Lie to them, manipulate them, use them, gaslight them.
Then project all of the problems as if being the sole victim.

Act behind their backs while expecting the whole truth.
Secretly betray them.

and then lastly......





Abandon them.